Most people have a drink with their meal or toast on special occasions. There is nothing wrong with that, as long as you can do without it.
If you can no longer do without it, then that can become a problem: you are then in danger of becoming dependent on alcohol. You can even become addicted to it.
Perhaps you need a little push to deal with alcohol in a healthy way. Check out these tips. The tips are based on the guidelines for responsible alcohol consumption of the Health Council.